For me a combination of the first and second choices really, if the first option would also include for them to also be available on steam chat as much as possible as well, that would be better. Like right now, I get the occassional person talking to me about people abusing the door bug on Arena, in which case I usually have to go in-game anyway because the bans page likes to get the wrong person. And then I'll end up playing arena after I've dealt with the abuser. And then I'll get bored and go onto payload, which when I usually go on, isnt full of spawn-camping pyros. But then again, recently when I have been going on Payload, it's when the server has like 3 people, and then when it gets back up to about 30 people, I'll leave. So I do try to be active on the servers when I can is my point of all this